Why mediation works instead of family court?

Here at Relationship Mediation, we believe that mediation can be an effective alternative to family court for resolving disputes for several reasons:

FDR (Family Dispute Resolution)
safe environment
confidential
voluntary
inadmissible
has mandatory reporting
operates with in the Attorney General and Family Court (FCFCOA) Rules and Regulations

  • Empowerment and control
  • Preservation of relationships
  • Confidentiality
  • Efficiency and cost-effectiveness
  • Customized solutions
  • Reduced conflict and stress
  • Compliance and satisfaction
  • Child-centered

Overall, while family court serves an essential function in resolving disputes, when necessary, mediation offers a more collaborative, flexible, and often less adversarial alternative that can be particularly well-suited to addressing the complexities and sensitivities of family conflicts.  At Relationship Mediation, we want to help you.  Call Geoff for a confidential chat about your circumstance.

Why mediation won’t work for some people?

While meditation can be incredibly beneficial for many people, there are several reasons why it might not work for everyone:

  • Expectations and Misconceptions
  • Difficulty in Quieting the Mind
  • Physical Discomfort or Pain
  • Resistance to Change
  • Lack of Patience and Persistence
  • Unaddressed Mental Health Issues
  • Incompatibility with Personal Preferences
  • Environmental Factors
  • Cultural or Religious Beliefs

It’s essential for individuals to explore different meditation techniques, be patient with themselves, and seek guidance or support if they encounter challenges or barriers to practice. Additionally, integrating meditation into a holistic approach to well-being that includes other self-care practices and supports can enhance its effectiveness for some individuals.

The children of the relationship will be dealing with their own issues

In the aftermath of a breakup, emotions run high. Loss, anger, frustration, and a sense of emptiness can overwhelm even the strongest of hearts.

It’s like walking through a storm, where memories of love and laughter are overshadowed by the pain of separation. Anger bubbles under the surface, fueled by the frustration of what could have been.

In the quiet moments, loneliness becomes a constant companion, reminding us of what we’ve lost. The absence of love feels like a gaping hole, leaving us feeling adrift and uncertain.

But amidst the turmoil, there’s a glimmer of hope. Despite the pain, our hearts are resilient. They have the strength to weather the storm and emerge stronger on the other side.

It’s okay to feel lost and broken. It’s okay to cry and to mourn what’s gone. But in our vulnerability lies our strength—the courage to rebuild and rediscover ourselves.

So, let’s embrace our emotions, no matter how painful. Let’s acknowledge our wounds and allow ourselves to heal. And in the process, may we find a new beginning filled with self-love and growth.

The children will express themselves in many ways, They also need support, guidance and possible some one they can share their thoughts, concerns, needs and wishes. Call and speak to Geoff at Relationship Mediation and we can provide additional information.

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The initial consultation typically lasts 2 hours and is dedicated to understanding your matter(s) and completing any necessary documentation to identify the issues. As a requirement for mediation, we also conducted a complete safety and risk screening for all participants during this initial meeting.

Testimonial

“Geoff has been instrumental in helping me navigate through a high-conflict co-parenting journey. He has been, and continues to be, a trusted and important partner who I consult when I need to figure out my next steps. Geoff makes himself available in person, via email or on the phone at short notice. On several occasions he has provided me with sound guidance for the best way forward and continues to teach me how to respond to difficult co-parenting situations. I am grateful to have him on my support team.”

-MS